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| E-Briefing June 9, 2000 Keith King, UC assistant professor of health promotion, points
to supporting findings from surveys of youngsters in northwest
Ohio. King and his team were investigating troubling
adolescent health issues such as drug abuse, teen pregnancy,
anger, violence and gang activity. "When we asked them why they
believed adolescents joined gangs or got into fights, they said
there was nothing else to do," says King.
Past research shows that youngsters will get involved in more
positive activities as those outlets become more available to
them. King recommends that parents check on summer recreation
programs in their communities and adds the YMCA and YWCA have
activities specifically geared toward children. "If there are no
rec centers in your community, parents can always work with
community leaders to get programs started," continues King, "but
remember that just because parents like the idea, that doesn't
mean kids are going to like it. You need to ask kids what they
want, and work to accommodate them." contact:
513-556-3859 Monitoring, he suggests, doesn't mean spying on your children
and following them around. He means checking on your kids by
asking them to call you regularly and let you know what they're
doing and where they are at. "You might need to do some checking
or extra phone calling to their friends houses, to make sure what
they told you is accurate," he said. It also means checking in
with the parents of your children's friends to confirm what the
plans are, rather than relying solely on what your kids say.
"It's not going to be 100 percent effective. Some parents who
monitor don't always succeed. There are some kids who are going
to be difficult to monitor and it gets harder to monitor kids in
their upper teens, when they get their driver's license," says
Carlton-Ford, himself a parent of teenagers. Children are also
less likely to get into trouble if parents are helping to manage
their children's activities, by helping them to find programs to
become involved in, helping them to sign up, and arranging car
pools to and from activities. contact: 513-556-4716 Part-time jobs or volunteer opportunities also are available
for some teens. Wehby adds that children also need a neighborhood
contact when parents aren't home, in case there's an
emergency. contact: 513-961-2825 These programs do not place a great deal of demand on the time
of people who want to be mentors. "This program focuses on
academics, and generally I want the mentors to meet with the
kids at least two to four times a month," says Rone. "We hold
monthly meetings with the mentors and we also keep the lines of
communication open with the mentors, the children and their
parents."
Mentors also are encouraged to plan a special activity when
the child performs well academically. "We keep in contact with
the parents and track report cards. The kids get a treat when
they've done well. They've been very receptive. It makes them
feel special." contact: 513-281-2306 "Parents can set up specific activities on the Web for the
child to complete, such as designing a scavenger hunt. You choose
the locations as the child tracks the sites. Also, reward
children for participating in creative learning activities on the
Internet ...encourage them to do productive and engaging learning
activities that are fun instead of random searching," continues
Pittman. She suggests parents consult with their child's teacher
for suggested sites that will help children prepare for returning
to school.
Pittman recommends parents regularly check their web browser's
history submenu, and tell the kids they're going to do so.
Youngsters will be less inclined to wander if their parents know
where they've been. contact: 513-556-4385 The America Reads summer campaign challenges children to read
and write at least five days a week over a 30-minute period;
learn how to use a library card; read with an adult at least one
day a week (Laine recommends parents check the Read-Aloud
Handbook, by Jim Trelease) and learn a new word each day. Laine
says the following web sites can guide parents as they help
children make their summer reading selections:
Newbery Medal Books: The Newbury Medal is named in memory of
18th century bookseller John Newbury. The American Library
Association selects the winners of the award, which honors
writers who have penned creative works for children. The web site
for the Newbery home page is:
http://www.ala.org/alsc/newbury.html
Caldecott Medal Books: Named in honor of 19th century English
illustrator Randolph J. Caldecott, this award from the American
Library Association honors children's books with the
most creative illustrations. The web site is:
http://www.ala.org/alsc/caldecott.html
contact: 513-556-3588 Informational books can also help children identify an unusual
bird, bug or butterfly they see in their backyard. The books can
be found in the nonfiction section of the library. Amspaugh adds
that some children may show an artistic flair, and enjoy dressing
up, putting on plays or making things, and many ideas that expand
their interests can be found in books. If a child's reading
skills are behind the skills of his or her friends, parents can
build the child's confidence by making reading a shared
experience. "My grandson's friends are reading the Harry Potter
series, but the books are too difficult to read by himself, so my
daughter is reading them with him--not to him," says Amspaugh.
"She reads some of the book and he reads some, so it's a shared
experience."
"Even older kids seem to enjoy that. Too often, parents think
if the kids read independently, they no longer like to have their
parents read with them and I think that's a misconception. Kids
still like the closeness that reading can provide." Amspaugh
recalls a former student who had told her he hated school and was
a poor student until he reached high school. "That's when he and
his mother began to discuss books. They lived in the country and
apparently his mother had no one else to talk with about the
books she was reading." Amspaugh says that student became an
English teacher who came back to UC to complete his master's
degree. contact: 513-556-3589 "Older children can improve their reading skills by reading to
younger children in the family or the neighborhood children
Naylor continues. "Families should turn off the TV and spend time
together reading, either indoors or outside with the warm
weather." Naylor adds writing is just as important as reading and
says kids can have fun keeping a journal of their summer
vacation.
"Children can write about what they did each day and collect
postcards of places they visited. When they return home, they can
make an album that includes the postcards and the entries in
their journal. When my children were younger, we had visited
Springfield, Illinois and a cat had kittens in the motel where we
were staying. The boys were more excited about that than what we
had seen that day!" contact: 513-891-1475 Henderson adds cassette and CD players with individual
headphones are another way to keep the peace, as children make
their own music selections, and Mom and Dad get the car stereo to
themselves. Squabbles over seating arrangements can be settled by
having children rotate seats and if they're old enough to sit in
front, having them sit in the front seat, opening parent/child
conversations with the driver.
Maps are easily found on the Internet, and they can be a great
educational resource on the family trip. During car stops,
children can use the map and the odometer to figure out the miles
traveled and how much farther they have to go, answering the "How
much longer till we get there?" question for themselves. If the
family wants to drive through snack time, children should pack
their own -- a sandwich, fruit and drink of their choice.
Henderson says that gives children a feeling of ownership and
helps them feel that they're involved in the planning of the
trip. contact: 513-556-0198 "We also want to make sure our plant material doesn't dry out,
because replacement of the lawn and plants is tremendously
costly, as we've learned from recent droughts. Make sure they get
a half to three-quarters of an inch of water on a weekly basis,
or that they're getting an inch of moisture every two weeks."
Smith also reminds gardeners not to spray for every insect. To
see whether the pest problem could threaten the life of the
plant, gardeners can take a diseased leave to an extension office
or university horticulture program and have it examined.
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