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Four alumni couples look back on their Bearcat Love story this Valentine's Day

Bearcat love stories are as unique as the couples who live them. They can begin with a sports activity or a social function. They can take root when a relative steps in to facilitate a pairing that clearly is meant to be. Or, in a once-in-a-million stroke of luck, they can begin when someone says hello to “the girl next door.”

As we celebrate Valentine’s Day, four alumni couples share their Bearcat love stories — personal tales of romance, devotion and continued engagement with the University of CIncinnati.

Judd Weis, A&S ’87, and Elizabeth Flynn Weis, Bus ’89

Judd and Elizabeth Weis at Nippert Stadium

Judd and Elizabeth Weis at Nippert Stadium. Photo/Provided

Elizabeth Flynn Weis and Judd Weis never intended to become Bearcat cheerleaders. But their standout athleticism caught the eye of fellow students who were recruiting for the squad. Liz had “played every sport” and studied dance while growing up in Heath, Ohio. Judd had been a three-sport athlete and springboard diver in Marysville, Ohio.

Maxed out with rigorous engineering coursework, Liz reluctantly agreed to attend cheerleading tryouts following encouragement from a senior cheerleader. Judd, cajoled by his fraternity brothers after a few (then-legal) drinks, agreed to try out as well.

Both easily made the squad, and a Bearcat love story was set in motion.

At first, sparks failed to fly. Recalls Liz: “He walked into a practice and I said, ‘That guy’s kind of cute, but he has long hair.’” Recalls Judd: “She was like a triple threat: She was brilliant, athletic and beautiful. I thought she was out of my league.”

Time passed. Judd had his hair cut in preparation for a job interview with P&G. And the bonding that comes with cheerleading worked its magic. Judd will never forget the last night of cheerleading camp, which wrapped up an intense few days of competition and high-intensity training. “There was a dance, and as they played the Prince song Beautiful Ones, I asked Liz to dance. It was like a lightning bolt for me. That instant on the dance floor, with that song, I was like whoa. It was an altered moment for me.”

A seven-hour drive home from Memphis followed, with Judd driving the squad’s van and Liz co-piloting. The two talked the whole time. “Something sparked that night,” Liz says.

A first date soon followed. At Fountain Square, Judd suggested they throw a quarter into the fountain instead of a penny to make their wish count more. “I made a wish that I would marry him,” Liz says. “After that first date, I just knew. I think he did too. When you know, you know.”

It’s such a blessing be married to someone who went to the same college... It’s icing on the cake to always have that.”

Elizabeth Flynn Weis, Bus ’89

Two years later, Judd made a marriage proposal that would become part of Bearcat lore. In a secret plot with Cynthia Oxley, the cheerleading coach, Judd replaced the regular Bearcat mascot, whose name was Tony, during the third quarter of the 1987 UC Homecoming game.

“I had never been in that Bearcat costume,” Judd says. “But I really wanted to create a memory and do it in a way that was part of the connection we had with the university and cheerleading. I had the ring, loose and out of the box, clenched in the paw. Finally, Cynthia asked Liz to take ‘Tony’ into the locker room because he was over-heating. It’s common for the mascot to take the head off, get a drink and cool off.”

Inside the locker room, Judd knelt so that Liz could remove the Bearcat head. “Liz took the head off, and I delivered what I thought was the most eloquent, persuasive proposal and opened the paw. The ring was there. I look up at Liz and ended with the question.”

Caught completely by surprise and concerned that the genuine mascot was OK, Liz exclaimed, “Where’s Tony?”

Collecting himself, Judd said Tony was fine. He popped the question again and this time got the “Yes, yes, yes!” he was looking for. Liz put on the ring; Judd gave Cynthia a thumbs up; and the UC band played the alma mater.

Liz and Judd will have been married 37 years in September. They have three children (including a UC graduate), have close friends who are UC alumni, and are UC season ticket holders. Judd retired from P&G after a 25-year career in 2012 and has worked with Liz ever since in business ventures, including the co-founding of a prize-winning bourbon distillery in Augusta, Kentucky, and Cincinnati-based Persensus Health Solutions, a joint venture with TriHealth. Liz and Judd have embraced philanthropy by establishing a scholarship for a UC student who is member of the cheerleading squad. 

“It’s such a blessing be married to someone who went to the same college,” Liz says. “It’s really nice to share that — the games, parties — that are school spirit-related, sports-related. It’s icing on the cake to always have that.”

Miles Davis, UCBA ’17, and Christina Hibbitt Davis, CECH ’08, CAHS ’15

Christina and Miles Davis in front of Kroger

Christina and Miles Davis in front of Kroger after launching their cookie dough brand. Photo/Provided

Christina Hibbitt and Miles Davis were both UC students, but on different campuses, when they first met at a family gathering. Miles was a walk-on running back for the football team and was dating someone else at the time, but Christina made an impression on him. “I was wowed,” Miles recalls. “You could feel the energy she brought. She was energetic, happy. The joy that she obviously had about her was something that everyone picked up on.”

Nothing happened right away, but their roads crossed again. They had both grown up in Greater Cincinnati. They knew many of the same people. They even bought their eyeglasses from the same optometrist.

When Miles invited Christina out on their first date in 2009, she had graduated and he had left UC — temporarily, it turned out — to follow in his father’s footsteps and become a firefighter for the City of Cincinnati.

Their first date, a quiet dinner at a nice restaurant, was memorable, the second even more so. During a Memorial Day weekend party hosted by Alicia Reece, an Ohio state representative who would become a Hamilton County Commissioner, Christina sensed that she could have a future with Miles. “It was a real ‘aha moment’ for me,” she says.

“That was definitely a game-changing date,” Miles says. “It was kind of confirmation that we’re both on the same page. We were both thinking a lot of each other.”

They married in 2012. Christina was working toward her master’s degree in social work at that time. Having grown up in a family that included professional cooks, she was also acquiring a reputation as an exceptional baker. 

“I started bringing cookie samples to class and also to the UC Medical Center’s emergency room where I was working,” she says. “In both places people kept saying these were the best cookies they’d ever had. People began offering to pay me for making cookies for them. When a UC security guard offered to pay me $15 for a dozen chocolate chip cookies, it clicked for me. I knew I’d always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but in that moment I thought, wow, I could start my own cookie business if people were going to pay me. I thought I’d like to provide people with a homemade-style cookie. I came home and presented the idea to Miles.”

He was cautious at first, but Miles knew how good those cookies were. “She brought them to monthly family dinners, and they were gone within five minutes.”

Today the Davis Cookie Collection is flourishing, with a storefront and a cookie truck that appears at UC events. Employees include UC students.

Miles is now a lieutenant with the Cincinnati Fire Department and the owner of an associate’s degree in emergency services from UC Blue Ash. The couple are parents of three children, one of whom will soon be attending football camp at UC. 

“We’re so appreciative to have been UC students,” Christina says. “Education is very important, and it gave us the foundation for our business. All those writing skills equipped us to be business owners. UC is a huge part of the story, and without it we wouldn’t be where we are.”

To us, UC will always be our home away from home.

Taryn Moske Huskey, A&S ’19

Taryn Moske Huskey, A&S ’19, and Bryce Huskey, CECH ’19, Bus ’22

Taryn and Bryce Huskey posing with Bearcat at their wedding.

Taryn and Bryce Huskey posing with Bearcat at their wedding. Photo/provided.

Their story began on the sixth floor of Dabney Hall. The floor was divided into two sections, one for women, the other for men. Bryce Huskey arrived first and moved into his room on the men’s hall. Taryn Moske arrived somewhat later. Her quad, it turned out, was the last one on the women’s hall, ending right where the men’s hall began.

“What the heck?” exclaimed Taryn’s mother, unaware that the dorm was co-ed and surprised to see young men unpacking their belongings right next door.

Little did she know that a true love story was about to begin.

Taryn and Bryce, new next-door neighbors, met that day. “My mom and sister left,” Taryn says. “My roommate and I wanted to meet the boys next door. I was super excited to find out who was next door — I was super excited but still nervous. Bryce was there with his roommate.

Taryn, from Powell, Ohio, outside Columbus, had fallen in love with the UC campus on her first tour as a high school junior, even though the tour took place during a downpour on a bleak April day. She recalls thinking, “I can’t imagine what the campus will look like when it’s not a day like this.” Bryce, from Woodlands, Texas, had grown up being “obsessed with everything Cincinnati” as a result of visits to his grandmother in Middletown, Ohio, and their excursions to Reds games and Skyline Chili.

Taryn and Bryce became part of the same friend group and got to know each other well. Bryce couldn’t believe his good fortune. “For me, it was like, is this what college is going to be like? Having the girl of my dreams living next door?”

They had their first date in the spring of freshman year and have been together ever since.

“I feel like our relationship blossomed throughout our years at UC,” says Taryn, who was voted Most School Spirited by her sorority. “We were very involved in Greek life, me with Pi Beta Phi and Bryce with Delta Tau Delta. We were both student ambassadors. In college you’re growing up. Being in Greek life together, having date nights and formals, provided the best memories for me. Those events made me feel more grown up.”

Bryce proposed two years after their graduation. “I tricked her and said we were going to a baseball game on UC’s campus,” Bryce says. “I wanted to propose near where we first met. We ended up finding our way to the roof of French Hall, which overlooked Dabney.”

Today the Huskeys live in Charlotte, North Carolina, where they are active members of the UC Charlotte Alumni Network. Bryce is a digital marketing senior specialist for Truist Bank, and Taryn is the marketing director for Take Me There Hospitality Group. Bryce has peppered his office with Bearcat memorabilia, while Taryn partners with UC’s Trademark and Licensing Department.

“We take pride in being Bearcats who live outside the Cincinnati tristate region,” Bryce says. “We’re able to expand the brand by coming in contact with people who don’t personally know somebody who went to UC. Being able to build that brand of what you could be hiring if you hire talent from our school, I take that seriously.”

Says Taryn: “To us, UC will always be our home away from home.” 

Jim Reger, CEAS ’59, and Kathryn (Babe) Gallenstein Reger, CECH ’59

Jim and Babe featured in a newspaper from their graduation from UC

Jim and Babe featured in a newspaper from their graduation from UC. Photo/provided.

Greek life was an important part of the campus community in the 1950s. For Jim Reger and Kathryn (Babe) Gallenstein Reger, it was the springboard that led to 57 years of marriage.

Jim came to UC from Dayton, Ohio, on a Sheffield Scholarship in 1954. He studied mechanical engineering and joined the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity. Babe grew up in Cincinnati, enrolled in the Teacher’s College in 1955 and joined the Alpha Chi Omega sorority, which was barely a hail-Mary pass away from the Sig Ep fraternity. Babe and Jim met during an Alpha Chi-Sig Ep party and were soon “pinned” to one another.

Jim was on the ground floor of UC’s first-in-the-nation co-op system. “It was mandatory for the colleges of engineering, business administration, and applied arts,” he says. Following his freshman year, he performed rotations at Sheffield Corporation, a manufacturer that revolutionized precision inspection equipment during World War II. Jim rose from doing “menial, beginner’s work” to designing parts for Sheffield’s air gage instrumentation.

He lived in the Sigma Phi Epsilon fraternity house between work sections in Dayton for five years. “We had a live-in house mother,” Jim says. “Study hours were enforced, and no alcoholic beverages were permitted. Girls were not allowed after hours. Believe it, or not, it was generally true. I do have to admit that my roommate John Fesenmeier's family owned the West Virginia Pilsener brewing company in Huntington. Sometimes, he brought us back a case of beer. We hid it to cool outside, on our third-floor window sill.”

While Jim enjoyed UC sports in the era of All-American basketball star Oscar Robertson, Babe served on UC’s Social Board, which coordinated major campus functions. She served as president in 1959. “Our Sig-Ep Bearcat reunions were handled by the guys for the first 25 years,” Jim says. “The last 30-plus years were planned mostly by Babe. It is in her DNA.”

Babe and Jim were married two weeks before they graduated together in 1959. They are the parents of four children (including one UC graduate) and 10 grandchildren (including two Bearcat graduates). At their 50th graduation reunion in 2009, they became “Golden Bearcats.”

Bearcat tips for couples

Christina Hibbitt Davis: “Keep God in the center of your married relationship. Forgive quickly. Don’t hold grudges.”

Miles Davis: “Consider that even when you’re in high school and college, your decisions matter a lot. Making smart decisions even before you meet that person will affect your life in some form or fashion.”

Taryn Moske Huskey: “Never stop dating each other. Make time for each other.”

Bryce Huskey: “Always try to bring out the best in each other. Be each other’s advocate. Champion one another and ask the heavy questions of what is it that you want out of this life? Because your job as a spouse, a partner, is to try to help the other person meet and exceed their potential and try to live out your dreams as a couple.”

Elizabeth Flynn Weis: “Make sure you have the same priorities going in. We wanted to have children. We wanted to be adventurous, to live overseas. We’ve been really open to sharing new opportunities. We have same mindset: try it, why not?”

Judd Weis: “Start with shared values and mutual respect. It helps to have shared experiences as young people. Try to be the first to apologize when there are conflicts. Make ‘I’m sorry, I was wrong,’ an easy response to come out of a conversation quickly. When approaching a problem with different points of view, try to make that a strength. Not everyone solves problems the same way. Try to appreciate that an alternative point of view can help you solve a problem better than if you tried to solve it on  your own.”

Featured image at top: Karolina Grabowska on Pexels.

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